Become Utterly Irresistible

People are drawn to those who don't need anyone to be drawn to them. We seek  that which we lack. What are some things that attract other people to us? Well, you can forget the external stuff; while you car, house or title might command attention, those things won't create lasting attraction. So what will?

  • Peacefulness
  • Confidence
  • Kindness
  • Generosity (be clear: it's not about the stuff, it's about the giving)
  • Hospitality
  • Forgiveness
  • Wisdom

So if you want to become utterly irresistible, you do it by focusing on — and growing — those qualities listed above.

Giving new meaning to the aphorism, “Become the change you seek in the world.”

Ray Edwards is a world-renowned copywriter and communications strategist, writing for some of the most powerful voices in leadership and business including New York Times bestselling authors Jack Canfield and Mark Victor Hansen (Chicken Soup for the Soul) and Tony Robbins. Ray is a sought-after speaker and author, hosts a popular weekly podcast, and blogs at

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  • Joaquimvieira

    I would like to get to know anyone with the true real qualities listes above. Of course, there are magnets with different levels attracting force.

    • Right! So the question is: how much of these do we each have already… and how can we grow in each?

  • Drstuartm

    The real virtues do create more attraction than ego-driven boasting and status symbols. Especially one-on-one, the person who genuinely cares and wants to serve is valued for what he or she is at least as much as what he or she has to offer in the way of specific skills.